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Apr 42 min read

Busy & Disconnected from My Body

This is the most embarrassing story. And maybe even a little TMI (too much info) but if you stick with me there’s a point. Rewind to...

Feb 32 min read

My Self-Love Aroma

I watched him smell his left fingers. He slowly sniffed the middle two. "Smell," he said. I held his hand and sniffed his middle fingers....

Dec 6, 20233 min read

My Story from the NO HAIR Battlefield

I’ve always been perplexed by the fact that my body is covered in hair, but to be considered a desirable and feminine woman I should not...

Oct 28, 20234 min read

My Body. My Orgasm.

Each Bodysex Circle starts with a ritual where every woman openly answers the questions, "how do you feel about your body?" and "how do...

Sep 13, 20234 min read

Anything I Do to Any Part of My Body Is Solely for MY PLEASURE

I am training to become a Bodsex Leader. This summer I attended the Bodysex workshop, as an assistant, to complete part of the...

Sep 1, 20232 min read

Do You Feel Safe? Reclaim Your Body.

Regine and I were talking about that line from The Color Purple when Sophia says, “A girl child ain't safe…” Like Sophia I, Tosh, grew up...

Aug 31, 20232 min read

Should You STOP Doing Kegels?

Last week I, Tosh, was a guest speaker at "Healthy Vagina Monologues: What your mama & society won't tell you!" with Kenya McGuire...